In the Bible, Jesus was notorious for hanging out with “the wrong crowd”. He could commonly be seen with the drunks, Â loose women, and sick that no one else would be seen with. Quite often he was criticized for this. Here’s some examples:
Mark 2:15-17 (ESV): “And as he reclined at table in his house, many tax collectors and sinners were reclining with Jesus and his disciples, for there were many who followed him. And the scribes of the Pharisees, when they saw that he was eating with sinners and tax collectors, said to his disciples, ‘Why does he eat with tax collectors and sinners?’ And when Jesus heard it, he said to them, ‘Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners.’”
Luke 4:36-47 (ESV): “One of the Pharisees asked him to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee’s house and took his place at the table. And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining at table in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment. Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, ‘If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner.’ And Jesus answering said to him, ‘Simon, I have something to say to you.’ And he answered, ‘Say it, Teacher.’
‘A certain moneylender had two debtors. One owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. When they could not pay, he cancelled the debt of both. Now which of them will love him more?’ Simon answered, ‘The one, I suppose, for whom he cancelled the larger debt.’ And he said to him, ‘You have judged rightly.’ Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, ‘Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment. Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven–for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little.’”
Seems not much has changed since Bible times. Two types of people no one likes: tax collectors and sinners. But that’s not my point.
When Jesus was alive, I think his daily schedule might have looked something like this :
6:00:00 AM- Wake up. Spend time with the Father in prayer.
6:00:01 AM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus praying? I can’t believe He has time for that!”
7:30:00 AM- Eat breakfast. Eggs and toast, nothing fancy. “Did you see Jesus eating breakfast? I figured Jesus would be a vegetarian.”
8:00:00 AM- Visit the homeless shelter. Serve breakfast.
8:00:01 AM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus at the homeless shelter? I can’t believe he was with those people!”
9:30:00 AM- Visit the sick in the hospital.
9:30:01 AM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus at the hospital touching the sick? I think we ought to buy him a keychain bottle of Purell.”
11:00:00 AM- Visit the movie theatre and witness. (They had those back then, right?)
11:00:01 AM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus at the theatre? I’ll bet He was seeing that R-rated movie.”
12:30:00 PM- Eat lunch. Share with 5000 people.
12:30:01 PM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus feeding the 5000? Let’s go see Him!”
12:35:00 PM- Preach a sermon. Lots of people.
1:30:00 PM- Heal the sick, tell parables, greet the kids, refuse to sign autographs.
4:30:00 PM- Done with healing. Go and hide.
5:00:00 PM- Eat supper. Pray until 7.
7:00:00 PM- Go walking downtown, see a prostitute running towards me, pleading for mercy.
7:00:01 PM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus with the prostitute? I can’t believe that he would do that!”
10:00:00 PM- Visit a bar and witness.
10:00:01 PM- Overhear phone call: “Did you see Jesus at the bar? He doesn’t seem like the drinking type. That’s just astounding.”
12:00:00 AM- Sleep, then repeat.
Okay, so this is a little exaggerated and modernized, perhaps, but it proves the point. Jesus was criticized. But he knew the will of His father, and so he continued even through trouble and persecution. In our ministries, how many times do we “criticize” those who visit the “undesirables”? I know I’m guilty, and pretty much every one of us is. But why? It’s human nature. Without choosing the right way of God, we can’t be truly non-judgemental. It doesn’t matter if the kids we minister to are Caucasian, African-American, Latino, short, tall, fat, ugly, challenged, or sick. It doesn’t matter if our volunteers are obstinate, simplistic, behind the times, old, young, or sometimes even downright annoying. We are called just the same to love and support them. That’s not to say we shouldn’t try to help our volunteers improve, or to allow contagious children into our classes all of the time, but it does mean that we should work with them whenever possible.
We also need to make sure that we aren’t judging those who are with those who are “undesirable”. Maybe they’re ministering. Maybe they’re just hanging out with them to make an impact on their lives. But we should still treat them the same. Gossip in the church gets started because of things people see and hear, but don’t get the full story. Don’t let “the gossip train” make a wreck of your ministry. It happens all too often in the church, and we don’t need more of it. Squash gossip when you see it. Go to the source before you start a rumor. But love all.
That seems to be the theme of this: Love all. It’s just that simple. Love all. Give this tidbit to your volunteers. Tape in on your wall. But just remember: Love all.
AMEN. I have the chance to preach in our adult service tom night and this is exactly what I am speaking on. I may just have to use the schedule thing. That was pretty cool.
Hey TJ, thanks! Make sure to let us know how your sermon goes tomorrow night. Thanks again!
This is good stuff Evan. You need to write a book! Man I’m watching you – God’s got some big things in your future! Thanks for the great post.
hmm… this book thing keeps coming up!? im wondering what God may be doing?!
He already has a proofreader – I know her quite well, although I hear her eyesight is failing.
P.S. Unfortunately, blogposts do not get proofread.
Hey guys I thought I would let you know that the message went well last night. There were a lot of peoples eyes that were opened to see that we need to touch everyone where they are at.
Awesome Pastor Tj. I’m glad to hear it.