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Artificial

I’m spending this week at Children’s Pastor’s Conference with KidzMatter (the company I work for). It’s hosted in the Gaylord Opryland hotel in Nashville, TN. One of the major features of the Opryland is its sheer size; it’s the largest American hotel and convention center under one roof outside of Las Vegas. This place is a maze of hallways, staircases, doors, and dead ends. It almost needs its own version of Google Maps.

Another thing the Opryland is known for is its lush indoor gardens. The interior of the resort is full of tropical plants and rushing waters. Inside this tropical paradise, it’s always sunny with a high of 75º and about 80% humidity. All the time. It’s crazy. You begin to forget after a time that you’re even inside. It feels like you’re wandering through a tropical forest that just so happens to have paved walkways, giant Christmas trees, and $20+ buffets. They’ve created an entirely artificial environment. When you step outside the doors of the Opryland, you realize that you’ve been missing reality. Reality is that it’s 20º, cloudy, and buffets are just $5.99 across the street.

The sad reality is that many churches have created the same artificial environment. I read an article earlier today from Time Magazine about the segregation of the American church. They cite a survey which revealed that just 8% of American churches have a significant racial mix. If I based my view of American society solely on your church, would I know there were such people as African-Americans, Asian-Americans, Latin-Americans and even Native Americans; or would I think that we were a nation that was solely Caucasian? Would I know that sometimes people struggle in life, or would I think that everyone here has a perfect life? Would I know that you care about people, or would I think that Americans are cold and heartless? Would I think that America loves every era of its worship music or would I think that all of our songs were either written 150 years ago or 15 days ago? Would I see the diverse heart and soul of Jesus Christ reflected in your church or would I think that people had forgotten who He was and what He had done?

Reflect on your church. What artificial environments have you created? What falsehoods do you need to break down? What doors do you need to let a blast of cold air through? How are you going to break through the glass ceiling that supports the artificial environment? How does God want you to break through?

Growing Up

Evan at Graduation

Evan at Graduation

In case you didn’t know, I graduated high school last Saturday.  I had a great time with all of my family and friends that were there, and I even got my diploma!  Today, we were picking up a vehicle from some friends and they congratulated me on my graduation.  My mom said, “Yep, he’s all growed up now.”  (She normally doesn’t talk like that.)  That got me thinking about something.

We have a tendency to associate major events with maturity.  Graduation, age, driving, first job, etc.  Many times, those things do indicate (and should) a greater degree of maturity.  Unfortunately, that’s not always true.  I know some people who are 15 that are more mature than some 30 year olds I know.  I know some 15 year olds that are more mature than some senior citizens I know too!  Age ≠ maturity.  Just because I’m graduated doesn’t mean I’m mature.  (Some days that’s more true than others!)  We have to mark that difference in our minds.

This matters in ministry too.  Many children’s ministries reject teenage workers because they’re afraid of immaturity, when in reality many of those teens may be more mature than some of your adults.  You can’t completely base that decision off of age- it needs to look at both personal and spiritual maturity.  I wouldn’t be writing this post today had someone not looked past my age to what I could contribute.  That’s not to say I’ve always been perfect, but both I and my church have benefited from my volunteering.  I appreciate that someone took the time to do that.  Who can you welcome in, to grow both them and you?  Who do you need to say goodbye to?  It’s an intriguing thought.

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